Esther wrote:
I loved Nancy Kulp/Miss Hathaway and am quite interested that you were of her acquaintance, O'B!
She is the ONLY claim to fame my little hometown (Mifflintown, PA) has - so it peeves us when biographers fudge the facts and say she was from Harrisburg just because it's the nearest place anyone's ever heard of.
Nancy & my mom grew up in this still-quaint one-horse town in the 1920s - I have a photo of them at Nancy's fifth birthday party. Nancy's family moved away in the 30s, and she ended up joining the service and then breaking into show biz through the back door, radio advertising in Florida. She told me once that she was fired for using the sales slogan "pants are down at Ruhl's mens store!" on the air, but that sounded slightly apochryphal to me. Funny, though!
Her husband (husband? what was she thinking?) encouraged her to go west. Kin folk said, Nancy, move away from there! Said californy is the place you oughta be...George Cukor discovered her, and she had small roles in a few really world class movies (Shane, A Star is Born, Sabrina) before she got into TV. I remember seeing her on the Bob Cummings Show before she did the Hillbillies, and my mom would always point out that she was an old friend of hers, but that never seemed quite real. How can you be friends with someone on TV?
After the Hillbillies ended she tried moving back to PA with her companion, a younger woman who was a greyhound breeder and a bit of a lush - that sort of hifalutin' hollywood shenanigans didn't fly in the backwoods (it has been said that Pennsylvania consists of Pittsburgh and Philadelphia with a whole lot of Alabama in between - that is VERY true, and I live in Tuscaloosa) and after some embarrassing situations Nancy soon went back to Palm Springs. She came back again in the mid 80s to run against a 4-term incumbent Republican senator and that's when I got to know her. She was funny and smart and hated Reagan (he had been president of the Screen Actors Guild and was responsible for screwing 60s sitcom stars out of any residuals for syndication - so even though the Hillbillies were on TV constantly, Nancy wasn't getting paid for it) and one of her most prized possessions was a photograph of her with Bobby Kennedy.
After she lost the election (her old "pal" Buddy Ebson -Jed Clampett - taped a radio ad for her opponent saying "Nancy, I love ya, but you're just too liberal") she moved to California AGAIN, and then back here one more time in 1990. She had just gotten settled into a big house in nearby no-horse town Port Royal when she was diagnosed with cancer. Her last TV appearance was on Entertainment Tonight - dying was the only thing she could do to get back on TV, it seemed - and they sent a film crew here to tape the interview. When it was shown on TV it was misidentified as being in Harrisburg, I guess because that was the airport they flew into.
Nancy went back to California one more time, because the hospitals are better out there, and died alone in 1991. My family was the closest thing to next-of-kin, so we inherited her effects and became executors of her will. Most of what she had was left to the ASPCA, and she was buried in Mifflintown, a stones throw from where I live now.
I was looking through a drawer a while ago and found her old address book, with people like her friends Bette Davis and George Cukor in it. Sort of unreal.
The funny thing about knowing Nancy was talking to her on the phone. I never got used to that. Her voice was so recognizeable, and was a part of my childhood (the Beverly Hillbillies was one of my favorite shows as a kid and a real part of American culture) , so when I was talking to her on the phone it always freaked me out a little. It was like talking to a TV character.
Nancy was a really good person, outspoken and sometimes a bit haughty, but was always very supportive of me. At the time I was a punk musician with a black girlfriend, and that sort of stuff was frowned upon in Alabama/Pennsylvania - which is probably exactly why she took a shine to me.
I'm very proud to say I knew her.
Disclaimer: These are my opinions and not fact as realised in these here United States, lest I give my friends the idea that everyone thinks like me.