fluke wrote:Sorry to say but that's kind of narrow minded: you either got it or you ain't. It's not not the case with diabetes nor alcoholism. It's possible yes but it's also perfectly possible through life style etc. to develop it otherwise. It is getting more widly assumed that genetics have something to do with it but there's stil no proof for that.
during a conference, i heard this theory: every gene has two aspects: IF and THEN; it means that, if you have, say, an "alcoholic gene" or a "violence gene" (!!) they could sleep forever, if there arent' some particular circumstances- like a troubled childhood, for example-that could wake it up.
I'm not making suppositions about anyone!
I only find it interesting because a friend of mine had a bad drinking habit and his mother and father too, and so I thought that it may exist a sort of genetical thing- but that's a dreadful thought, isn't it- and this theory is quite reassuring beacuse it says that there's nothing inevitable, you're not doomed- there's no genetical lot.